There are far too many goodbyes in parish life. Every season has its own goodbyes. At the beginning of winter we bid farewell to the snowbird parishioners who fly south for the winter. Early June we have to say goodbye to the teachers and school children as they begin summer break. This time of the year it is the college students who leave us to go off to school. Goodbyes can be difficult but also somehow an important part of God’s plan for our lives and for the lives of our loved ones.

When my goddaughter was heading off to college in Michigan I gave her some money. I told her that when she got settled there she should stop by the campus store to pick out for me a coffee mug or a t-shirt or something with the college logo on it and to send it to me. Then every time I drink from the mug or wear the t-shirt I could say a short prayer for her and maintain a little connection with her.

I hope the college students will seek to stay connected too. Most importantly I hope they can stay connected with God. Parents, you can help to your student to stay connected to their faith while they are away. Log onto The Newman Connection website at www.newmanconnection.org or the Fellowship of Campus University Students website at www.focus.org . Contact the campus ministry or the local parish with your student’s contact information. They would be happy to contact your student or send information regarding Catholic happenings at their college.

We will pray for you, beloved college students, on the journey. Seek what is true, beautiful, and good!


Fr. Dennis Zehren